When you settle for head in the men’s room of a club, during a break in the dancing, you get what you get. It takes more than a few songs worth of time to teach somebody how you enjoy getting your cock sucked.
Dear Uncle Blabby,
I’m dating this guy who occasionally does porn movies. He says that he doesn’t fool around, that it’s a job when he has sex with other men. He says he would never have sex with another guy without me knowing and he has asked me if I would like to take our relationship to the next level. Do you think it would be wise for me to get more involved with this guy? I like him but something bothers me inside.
No Name
Hudson, N.Y.
Dear No Name,
Guys that do porn frequently indicate that the sex is just that, sex without the emotional involvement. They have said they would not be able to do it repeatedly if that were not the case. So I believe him. My concern comes with your statement that he would never have sex with another guy without you knowing. Does that mean professionally or do you think he would have sex recreationally? There is a distinction. If you are OK with him having recreational sex outside your relationship (if that’s the case) then move on to the next level. If not, then move on to a new guy.
Former Porn Star,
Uncle Blabby
Dear Uncle Blabby,
Have you ever heard of long distance relationships working? I’m thinking about getting into a relationship with a guy I feel deeply for but it seems impossible with him more than 200 miles away. Would a long-term relationship be more bother than it’s worth?
Guy
Springfield, Mass.
Dear Guy,
The answer is yes. I know of situations where long distance relationships have worked out. The most important aspect of the relationship however is honesty and trust. Be totally up front and honest with him about your feelings and concerns. Ask him for complete honesty as well. 200 miles is a tough commute, but for the right guy, might be totally worth the effort. You can judge how committed he is by how often ‘he’ decides to make the trip as opposed to you making it.
Driven to be with my BF,
Uncle Blabby
Dear Uncle Blabby,
I was in a toilet stall at a club trading BJ’s with a guy I met on the dance floor. He was a real hot guy but couldn’t give good head at all. How can one teach someone how to give good head on the fly and get the job done correctly?
Mike
Hartford, Conn.
Dear Mike,
When you settle for head in the men’s room of a club, during a break in the dancing, you get what you get. It takes more than a few songs worth of time to teach somebody how you enjoy getting your cock sucked. If you are only interested in quickies in the men’s room, then you will have to settle for however the guy does it. Just because a guy is ‘real hot’ doesn’t mean he can give a good blowjob. Next time, get his number so you can invite him over to your house and ‘teach’ him how to do it correctly.
Master Trainer,
Uncle Blabby
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