Dear Uncle Blabby:

As you’ve said, not all of us are pigs. In fact, some of us also live in Manchester and would give anything to meet and grow to know the right type of guy.

Jay,
Another Seeker in Manchester

Dear Jay:

Meeting the “right guy” is not always easy. There are several nice guys out there. The trick is to find out where they are and get to meet them. Uncle Blabby is still looking as well. So good luck, and hopefully we’ll both find the “right one”!

Looking for the Trick,
Uncle Blabby

Dear Uncle Blabby:

I live in an apartment with my two cats. Currently I am paying $850, plus utilities. My problem is that every time I go to look for a cheaper place, they won’t let me bring my cats. Is there a solution?

Melissa

Dear Melissa:

Yes there are solutions. You may not want to hear them, but there are solutions. The first is to consider purchasing a place. You will be surprised to find out how affordable some condo’s are. Contact a Realtor and ask them to do an assessment of your capability to purchase. That way, you can keep the cats. The other alternatives involve moving into a neighborhood with a Chinese Restaurant, or finding another home for the cats.

Loves Chinese Food,
Uncle Blabby

Dear Blabby:

I have a very good friend that as of late, I never see. We used to spend a great deal of time together, but recently he met a guy. They now spend almost every waking hour together. The guy lives a distance away, so I don’t even get a chance to see him when they are together. How do I get my best friend back?

Please don’t use my name.

Dear No Name:

It is not uncommon for you to feel this way. It sounds like the two of you spent a great deal of time together and were “buds.” That can take some adjustment, not unlike any other type of separation. It may be difficult for you because you now have to do things without your friend, but I’m sure deep inside you must be happy for him. If he has found a person to share his life with, accept it. I would sit down with him and explain your feelings. Tell him that you miss his companionship. Tell him that you totally understand why he is spending time with his new beau, but that you hope he will understand that there should be some time allocated for you as well. If he is a true friend, he will understand and make appropriate changes in his behavior.

Lonely no more,
Uncle Blabby

Dear Uncle Blabby:

I have heard that going on gay cruises is a great way to vacation, and to meet other gay people. Have you ever gone on a gay cruise or do you know anything about them?

Bill F. , Newington

Dear Bill:

I personally have never gone on a “gay” cruise. I have friends that have and they say that they are wonderful. I have, however, gone on cruises. I can tell you from personal experience that it is a great way to vacation. You can do as much or as little as you want. The trip that you get for the price that you pay is a terrific value. Additionally, I have never failed to meet other gay folks on those cruises. Remember, we are everywhere. So whether you decide on an all-gay cruise or not depends on you, but do cruise.

Always Cruising,
Uncle Blabby

Send questions to Uncle Blabby, c/o Metroline, 495 Farmington Avenue, Hartford, CT 06105 or e-mail keepintouch@metroline-online.com

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